As we approach Thanksgiving on Thursday, most of us are reminded to be thankful at least once this week. Whether it’s during our own quiet time or around the dinner with family and friends, at some point in the next few days, most of us will give thanks for all the blessings we’ve enjoyed in our lives this past year.
While Thanksgiving is a national reminder to remember our blessings with gratefulness, most Americans will rush through this moment of gratitude to get to the next big part of the holiday celebration. We’ll cheer at the games on TV, we’ll rush through our family time to be the first one in line on Black Friday, and we will probably complain over the overworked sales clerk that rings up our 25% off doorbuster flat screen. The emotion of thankfulness will last a split second and will all but be forgotten in the hours and weeks that follow as the busy holiday season enfolds us with sales, ads, parties, and commercialism.
I find it rather ironic that in recent years, the national day of Giving of Thanks has turned into a self-satisfying day of materialism and greed. Whatever happened to contentment, thankfulness, and a grateful heart?
Friends, this is simply a sign of the last days.
Unthankfulness: Characteristic of the Last-Days Generation
The Bible warns us that as the day of Jesus’ return approaches, the world will be marked by perilous times, which include all kinds of evil desires and attitudes. While describing the characteristics of the end times and listing such vices as selfishness, pride, and blasphemy, the Apostle Paul includes one small word that may surprise us all: unthankfulness.
Unthankfulness is simply the opposite of thankfulness. According to the dictionary, being thankful means to feel or express gratitude, to be appreciative. Gratitude comes from the word grateful, which describes a person who warmly or deeply appreciates kindness or benefits he or she has received. By extension, ungratefulness depicts a person who is unappreciative, who refuses to display gratitude, or who does not give due return or recompense for benefits conferred. Sounds familiar, doesn’t it?
Sadly, my generation is marked by this disturbing behavior of unthankfulness. It’s rare to find young adults who consistently express gratitude towards their elders, their teachers, their pastors, or their mentors. In fact, Millennials are characterized by an attitude of entitlement. Instead of being thankful for what was given to them, they demand and expect people go out of the way to serve them and meet their needs. They expect churches to cater to their whims or alter their entire services just to fit their schedules. They demand their parents pay for their activities, hobbies, and interests. They even pompously require that God bend his Word just so they can justify their sinful lifestyles. Yep, it is definitely a self-serving, self-oriented generation where thankfulness and gratitude have taken a back seat to entitlement, self-exaltation, and self-centerdness.
This, my friends, is exactly what Paul warned us would happen in the last days. And it’s not just in the world where this would take place. If we read the Scriptures carefully, we understand Paul was admonishing the Church to be on watch, because this would happen inside the church walls as well in the end times.
Becoming People of Thankfulness
When Paul warned us of these things, he not only gave us insight into how things will be around us, but he also showed us the ungodly attitudes that would mark the last-days generation. By giving us this warning, he showed us what we as Christians have to be on guard against in our own lives. If we aren’t careful to guard ourselves in the Word of God, we will slip along with everyone else and live contrary to the standards God has set for us in Christ.
Thankfully, there is hope! We can look around our generation and compare their actions and attitudes to the Word of God. If it’s not condoned in the Word, then we toss it. It’s as simple as that!
Although unthankfulness might be prominent in our generation, we don’t have to adopt that attitude or behavior. Just because we live in this world doesn’t mean we have to be like the world! We CAN be people of gratitude and thankfulness.
So how do we become examples of thankfulness in our own generation that demands entitlement? Here are three keys to help us move from ungratefulness to thankfulness:
1. We must Adjust Our Hearts
Just like entitlement and self-centerdness is a heart issue, so is thankfulness. If we want to become people of thankfulness, we must first take inventory of the condition and motives of our hearts and adjust accordingly. Proverbs 4: 20-27 gives us some great instruction on guarding our hearts:
My son, attend to my words; incline thine ear unto my sayings.
Let them not depart from thine eyes; keep them in the midst of thine heart.
For they are life unto those that find them, and health to all their flesh.
Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.
Put away from thee a froward mouth, and perverse lips put far from thee.
Let thine eyes look right on, and let thine eyelids look straight before thee.
Ponder the path of thy feet, and let all thy ways be established.
Turn not to the right hand nor to the left: remove thy foot from evil.
Thankfulness first begins in the heart and is reflected in the life. If we make the adjustment on the inside first, we’ll begin to show it on the outside. Actions and words of thankfulness will only come if we change our internal status first.
2. We Must Watch Our Words
Once we’ve adjusted our hearts and established thankfulness within, we must begin to speak it out with our mouths. Over and over again, the Bible talks about the importance of our words and our confession of faith. If we believe something with our hearts, we speak it with our mouths!
If you’re still not certain that you should actually give voice to your thankfulness, take a look at these scriptures:
“Therefore will I give thanks and extol You, O Lord, among the nations, and sing praises to Your name.” ~Psalm 18:49
“That I may make the voice of thanksgiving heard and may tell of all Your wondrous works.” ~Psalm 26:7
“I exhort therefore, that, first of all, supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made for all men.” ~1 Timothy 2:1
“By him therefore let us offer the sacrifice of praise to God continually, that is, the fruit of our lips giving thanks to his name.” ~Hebrews 13:5
While these are just a small sampling of scriptures dealing with thanksgiving, it’s obvious from God’s Word that we are to give thanks at all times!
3. We Must Change Our Actions
Thanksgiving is not just an attitude of the heart or a word spoken from the mouth, it is also an action of our lives. When we are truly thankful, our actions will show it!
The Bible shows us how thankfulness will affect our actions and lifestyle:
“Neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not convenient: but rather giving of thanks.” ~Eph. 5:4
“Rooted and built up in him, and stablished in the faith, as ye have been taught, abounding therein with thanksgiving.” ~Col. 2:7
“Continue in prayer, and watch in the same with thanksgiving.” ~Col. 4:2
As we establish ourselves in thankfulness, our entire lifestyle will begin to change. No longer filled with griping, greed, or selfishness, our lives will begin to flourish in the light of thanksgiving!
Be Aglow in Christ!
So when we sit down with our families over Thanksgiving dinner, or when we run to the store for the midnight madness Christmas sales, let’s remember Thanksgiving isn’t just a day for turkey and dressing. It’s a reminder to set ourselves apart from an unthankful generation and to be aglow in Christ, full of thanksgiving!
“In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.” ~1 Thess. 5:18
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